You read about the way the US and Europe treat areas like education and health care, and start to understand that even though both sides of the Atlantic belong to the Western world, life can look pretty different depending on which one you're on.
It's evident without diving into difficult social policies, too. Last week, Redditor Jrusj asked other users: "Americans that visited Europe, what was the biggest shock for you?" and the answers immediately started pouring in.
As of this article, there are already over 14,000 comments under Jrusj's post, many of which reveal that the Old Continent can surprise even its descendants. Below, you will find the most popular answers, so continue scrolling and enjoy.
#1The age of all the buildings. Walked into a pub in the UK with a plaque that read something like “This building was constructed in the year 2 and was used by monks to fend off dinosaurs”. Maybe not the exact words, but you get it.
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#2I went to Europe I drank all the booze, ate all the food Stayed 2 months and lost 20 pounds
Americans aren't overweight because we're lazy or gluttons or anything else we're overweight because we are being fed s***
#3I was not ready for how many overwhelmingly beautiful ancient buildings and cities I saw in only two weeks. I actually couldn’t fathom what I was looking at. It was a surreal experience like I was really in touch with a completely different era of humanity. There is absolutely nothing like this in America. It blew me away and made me really care much more about European history, urban planning, and architecture!
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#4I was surprised at how much walking I did. I did it because it was easy, not because I had to.
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#5First time in Spain… 22:30… Sun still out… parents sitting, drinking, relaxing while kids run up n down… felt so completely safe and comfortable.
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#6I heard a story of a lady who was dumbfounded that there weren't going to be fire works celebrating the 4th of July. Couldn't conceive the idea that other countries don't celebrate America's independence day
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#7That tax was included on the price tag.
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#8Apparently you can get hurt and not go into debt
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#9When I ordered a small drink, it was actually small.
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#10Complete privacy when taking a dump in a public restroom. It was hard to come back home just from that.
#11I went to Scotland. Ran across some German tourist who asked us to translate what the scot was saying. We were all three speaking English. They just couldn’t understand each other
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#12Holidays. Europeans get so much paid time off. I've gotten into arguments with some of my American friends because they legitimately believe tons of Europeans opt out of taking their PTO because there's so much work to do. I don't buy that. People would riot. Anywhere I went in late July-August, there were tons of shops closed cause people were spending the month with their families enjoying their time off.
That and public bathroom stalls going all the way down to the floor. Y'all understand privacy.
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#13Young children were using public transportation (i.e., city bus, subway)—not escorted by adults—to get to and from school rather than a designated yellow bus. Where I am from, public transportation is barely useable by adults much less children.
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#14Cashiers in grocery stores sat in chairs as they rang up my yummy non-gmo cheese and bread. They also didn’t feel any job pressure to chat or smile or act like your best friend. They just worked and DGAF. It was amazing!
#15In France people get two hour lunches. Like some stores will have two separate open and close times cause they’ll just shut down for two hours a day to enjoy themselves. Most people seemed much happier and relaxed as a whole.
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#16The distinct lack of "people of walmart"
#17The only thing that really surprised me was how much pedestrians trusted cars to not hit them
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#18I’m Dutch, but I’ll never forget my American girlfriend’s reaction to seeing rows and rows of parked bicycles in front of the train station when she came to visit the Netherlands. “Oh my God look at all those bikes!!”
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#19How old a lot of the cities are. People still living in buildings older than the U.S. Walking down some of the old streets feels like you’re time traveling into a medieval fairytale.
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#20How young the U.S. truly is.
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#21How small things were like appliances, paper towels, toilet paper. I really wanted to take that idea home with me. It makes so much sense.
Also, how conveniently close shops were so we only drove when visiting other cities. I love it and I want it!
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#22The amount of smoking! I have a close friend in Europe, she's talked about the public transportation and the way the cities are laid out to be beneficial to walking and biking. But nothing prepared me for the amount for smoking I saw when I was in Paris, Helsinki, Tampere, and Turku
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#23I was in Switzerland for a few days. I felt like the fattest person in the country at 6’0”, 210 lb. It was also amazing to me that it felt like two different countries going from Geneva to Zurich. The language went from French to German with the architecture completely different between the two cities. Absolutely beautiful country.
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#24How friendly everyone was. I was always told everyone hates Americans. Wasn’t my experience at all.
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#25You hear about how big the Roman empire was and all the advanced building tech they had. But it doesn't really sink in until you see it with your own eyes.
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#26Finally, I can walk to a store
#27The amount of public transportation and in many places people not driving or not even knowing how to drive.
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#28For me, it was how well I was taken care of as an artist. In America, a musician is treated like help at the bar. You’re paid whatever the minimum amount they can possibly give you is. You might get 2-4 drink tickets. In Europe they respected you, fed you, found you places to sleep. Free drinks. Enough said.
#29Cats. Cats everywhere.
#30My grandma took me back to England at the end of my 8th grade year to see my nanna as well as where she grew up. I still remember quite vividly finding out that there's a very big difference between what's allowed on TV in England and what was allowed on TV in the United States regarding nudity. As a young boy this was a very exciting discovery.
Edit: I should also add that my entire experience with British culture had up until this point been through my grandma who was very formal and proper. I played soccer at an incredibly high level in the states so she managed to arrange a time for me to go play with a local academy team in Norwich for the afternoon. I'm still not sure how she managed to do this. I will never forget how foul mouthed everyone was - coaches included. This took me entirely by surprise. I will also never forget how humbling that experience was because I was nowhere near as good as I thought I was. I could hold my own, but my goodness I was certainly in the bottom half of the talent pool that day.
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#31I was surprised how many people still smoke cigarettes and how common it was to have people smoking in outdoor restaurants and bars. It has gotten to the point you almost never smell cigarette smoke in those places in most of the USA.
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#32Remember in the sopranos, when Tony comes back to jersey from Italy? And everything is ugly? I spent a month in NL and Louisiana looked so bad when I got back.
#33Okay this is dumb but in the states I always get my cappuccino with cinnamon because it's glorious and of course I always have to ask because that's not the standard.
A couple of years ago I was in Stockholm Sweden and asked for a cap with cinnamon and the lady looked at me like I was crazy.... Because apparently that was standard and she didn't understand why I was asking for something it already had. The rest of the trip I never asked and I always received. Not sure if that's just their traditional take on cappuccinos or if I just got lucky every time but I think I found my people.
#34How polite everyone was. How fresh the food was from restaurants. The simplicity of fruit stands/markets. How easy it was to get around by train (backpacked Europe for a month in 2017: england, France, Italy, Switzerland) edit- I live in South Florida. What is a train?
#35This may sound weird, but how much they ate. Americans are the fat ones who eat too much so the stereotype goes but I took a semester in rural Germany in middle school— breakfast, morning break snack, lunch, afternoon break snack, snacks in town after school let out, dinner when you got home and occasionally this late night meal when my host parents got home, etc. Don’t get me wrong, all of it was more fresh and 10x better than the literal plastic Americans think is OK to eat on a normal basis, but I was constantly full for like the first week because I was too awkward not to eat the snacks my host mom had packed. Eventually ended up refusing things, and my host sister thought I was sick because I wasn’t eating every time the group was or something. Ironically I actually lost weight during the trip, probably because the food is just generally better for you. We did live on a farm too so it was insanely fresh.
#36When I was in Rome, individuals simply walked into crosswalks and autos came to a complete stop.
I'm from New York. I can jaywalk with the best of them...but f*ck dude, I'm going to need my pedestrian crossing signals! The majority of my vacation was spent crossing streets in Rome...it was like playing a terrifying game of double dutch.
Those drivers, on the other hand, are sensitive to weakness.
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#37History. I followed a tour of American tourists into the church in downtown. Question gets asked: Is this the oldest church in town? Heard reply:
(Chuckle) Oh no, the old church is on the North side of the river. This church was built in 1310.
Just a different perspective on history.
#38You can drink a beer anywhere, anytime. I mean I woke up in Berlin and bought a bottle of beer at a small breakfast stand in a park it was like 6am.
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#39American living in Sweden:
Most people don’t respect Americans until they meet you and confirm that you’re not one of “those” Americans
People drink literally at any chance they get.
Every apartment has an electric bath towel warmer. It’s pretty standard apparently.
Boobs on TV.
The vegetables are exponentially smaller, bc theyre not genetically modified.
Fruit-flavored sodas are required to have fruit juice in it so the Fanta sodas here are more like a spicy Sunny D
They are hardcore about recycling out here.
Tipping culture doesn’t really exist.
The bank is never f*cking open.
Ground floor is not the first floor. Its the 0 floor.
#40In Italy the shower at one of my hotels had no barriers to keep the water in one general area. It was just a drain in the floor. Luckily it was just that one and it was definitely an older hotel.
Also I was really surprised that the price was exactly what the price tag said. I love that the tax is rolled in, especially while I learned the currency.
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#41The amount of casual nudity on TV. I had to chuckle at all the naked breasts frequently visible. Europeans are just healthier in their views of sexuality and nudity. We Americans are ridiculous prudes by comparison.
Oh and Belgian chocolate is better than sex. Often.
#42How everything is less sugary/sweet.
How people just walk away from minor vehicle bumps/scrapes. In the US they would pull over and at minimum exchange info, if not call the police.
In France, the lack of casual wear in public(like tshirts, sports clothing).
How restaurants aren't about pumping people in and out and no one is really in a rush (Paris)
Much smaller size vehicles. Go to a typical parking lot in America and >50% will be suv or trucks. I barely saw any suv/trucks in London or Paris.
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#43How much better all the food was. Everything was fresh, made from minimal ingredients, and most of it was grown locally. (Going from US to France) I also lost about 15 pounds even though I stopped exercising in a gym. Also my skin and hair looked better than ever. I think preservatives and high fructose corn syrup might actually be bad for you.
#44Tipping just not really being a thing.
#45I lived in Europe for 5 years (2011-2016), specifically in Amsterdam. There were a lot of interesting little cultural quirks, of course, but there was only one thing I saw while living there that literally made me slam on my bicycle breaks and go back to see if I saw it right, which was of all things a Sesame Street Live poster.
You see, turns out Big Bird (or his equivalent) in the Netherlands and several other countries is blue. The Dutch will insist that it's actually Big Bird's cousin, Pino, but I wasn't fooled. You know he just escaped to the Netherlands to seek an alternative lifestyle.
So yeah I'm sure OP wanted something more serious and profound, but that was the biggest shock for sure because who expects that?!
#46Italy-The abundance of inexpensive and very good red and white wines. Amazing!
Amsterdam-most things are designed to be practical. The people are polite and practical as well. No large, fancy cars.
Both places-the fact that I could jump on a train and get to most places in Europe was really cool.
#47Boobies on billboards. When I was around 4 or 5 back in the early eighties I lived in Germany. We were driving down the street one day and I was extremely surprised and embarrassed to see casual nudity in public. Now that I'm older, I realize America has some prudish sensibilities. lol
#48That eggs are stored in the pantry and not the fridge.
German Taxis use large Mercedes Benz to get around.
Topless women in French shampoo commercials.
#50I was shocked by how many people spoke English, and so well too.
#51Using the restroom while a woman cleaned the urinal next to me..
#52Those statues on the streets of London that people walk by and don’t even spare a single glance? They’ve got a longer history than the United States
#53Just spent my first week in Europe last week. Walking was awesome. Bikes were awsome.. so many different languages, unpasteurized food and very fit people
#54The infrastructure there continued evolving and is “modern”. It really takes leaving to understand how the United States has barely done anything to make transportation or infrastructure better since the 70s. It’s like we’re still living in the past.
#55Europe is lot better in Public Transportation, lots of Buses, trams.
#56I've lived in Europe for most of the last 20 years...when I first moved here the main things were:
the quality and efficiency of public transportation. Where I am from (Oklahoma City) there is almost no public transportation.
The fact that sometimes when you go to the doctor they basically just tell you, "yeah, you're sick. You need to go home, drink lots of fluids, and rest." In the US it seemed like regardless of what the ailment was you were gonna get a prescription for something.
In my experience, people here communicate much more directly and if you are not used to it, it might seem rude.
The lack of a copay for things like doctor's visits, physical therapy, etc. along with a price cap on prescription drugs.
The attitude toward customer service. "back home" in the US I was a customer service manager at a retail chain in college. The standard practice was that if someone complained, regardless of how ridiculous the complaint was, we just gave them a coupon for 10% off or something. Here, if you are unhappy with the service at a store and ask to speak to the manager, the manager is probably just going to tell you to "go shop somewhere else if you don't like it here."
#57Not a shock per se, but something of an immediate reorienting of perspective in terms of history and how young the US really is. We have cool historical sites and artifacts, but it’s weird to suddenly be confronted with the reality that for as historical as Ben Franklin and the liberty bell were/are, they’re borderline infantile on a global historical scale.
I especially remember being at a church in Italy, reading about its history and initially felt a bit deflated when a sentence began “this is not the original church, the original burned down and was rebuilt on the same site…” and thinking ah bummer, so this is the knockoff replica, not the real thing— and then getting to the end of the sentence “…in the 12th century.” The “knockoff replica” is 600 years older than the Liberty Bell.
#58Spain: Okay, it's afternoon; it's time to run some errands. It took me a week to learn that on days 2-5, the entire country shuts down.
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#59I always forget the electrical outlets aren't the same. I went to Ireland once, then had to get a different one for France. I think the two I have cover all the varieties now though
#60Europeans dress up for the day. Y’all don’t wear athletic shorts and tennis shoes. Like just going to the store, ya gotta dress up decent enough
#61Personal bubble is very different. It shocks you at first, and you feel sort of claustrophobic, but then you get used to it, too. It's kind of subtle until you come back to the states and unconsciously stand so "close" to someone else in a line that they start shooting you dirty looks.
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#62I arrived to the Netherlands. Rode about 1.5 hrs worth of trains from Amsterdam to my destination. When we hit my final destination, a woman in her late 50s (eyeballing here, so five or take) is in front of me. She has a long black cloth case strapped to her back that looks like it might have a guitar or similarly shaped object.
No. It was a longboard. She pulls it out and skates off into the distance. I’m flustered and just stood there for a minute thinking through what I just saw.
#63220 V power
#64How good the food was - going to Italy ruined pizza for me for many years, it still is not the same; even the authentic pizza here doesn’t taste nearly as good because of the generally poor quality of ingredients here in the states compared to in Europe.
On the other hand, I was surprised I almost chipped a tooth on authentic French Bread, pretty sure it scuffed up my gums too - I don’t know if they just gave us stale bread because we were Americans, but all of our bread was literally inedible and hard as a rock.
#65The difficulty of finding a public toilet, and then having to pay to use it.
I went to Rome in September. Walked miles and miles checking things out, drinking tons of water to stay hydrated, and not a toilet to be found.